Single Woman of God!!!!!!!! :)

Having been in a relationship for the past 7 years I thought I had found my soul mate! I thought I knew exactly what I wanted in a partner and I knew I had found it in him. Six months ago that relationship came to an end, and at first it felt as if I had been sitting on a chair and someone pull it from under my bottom without warning. I felt pain, anger, betrayal, confusion and the list could go on. I could have chosen to feel sorry for myself and wallow in my own pain and suffering. Instead with the help of my loving sister’s advise I got up wiped away the tears and faced the music. That music was that God had a different plan for my life and what I had taken from that relationship where blessings, strength, love and lessons that have prepared me for whats to come. Sure there were days when I thought I had been in a relationship so long, that I have no idea how to start dating again. It was then I realized that all along I stayed in my previous relationship only because the situation fit the frame of the picture I was painting for my life and all the years that God tried to pull me away from it I kept fighting to stay in it! See we get so comfortable from time to time in situations that’s clearly not good for us and though God tries to show us the way he wants us to go, we fight. One thing I didn’t want to walk away from my situation being an angry woman. So I took some time out with my Lord one day and just prayed about it, that I would use it as a tool to teach me more about myself and what it is that God wants for me. I asked for patience to wait on God to place the right man in my life and that I would be able to know the difference between when I’m  doing ME or  what God wants for me.

Signed Tulip

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6 thoughts on “Single Woman of God!!!!!!!! :)

  1. You are a strong and wise woman of God. :) Continue to trust Him to guide you through the wonderful journey of life so that you’ll remember who you truly are (an all-loving soul of God) and what you’re capable of doing to benefit yourself and others (God’s gift of the power within you).

  2. So very insightful and, for me, apporpriate … just at this moment, for what you have written applies so very well, not only to more “romantic” relationships ~ aka with one’s soul-mate ~ but in so many other relationships in life. Now the Lord is pulling me away, too, in another much better, healthier direction where all relationships are concerned. Thank you!

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